I know this will come as a shock to some, but...there is no such thing as magic. At least not when it comes to getting things done in life. If there is magic that allows me to accomplish the things that I have, it's called "Get Shit Done." Yeah, it's that simple. If I were to wait until the "right" moment, or when "I felt like" doing things, chances are, not much would be done. Have I necessarily enjoyed doing the dishes, folding laundry, or cleaning the bathroom? Well, maybe...I'm a little weird. But when it comes down to it, I know what needs to be done, and get this...I FUCKING DO IT. It's that simple.
Some people think that they have to wait until they get the motivation to do things, but little do they know, that motivation is not always necessary to accomplish things. Nor is energy. I don't necessarily feel like the Energizer Bunny, but yet I am still able to walk three dogs two miles per day, work out, cook, clean, do laundry, write articles for work and do my homework. How am I able to do this? Perhaps it's due to the fact that I am intrinsically motivated in life. Maybe that is what helped me to graduate high school at the ripe age of 16, earn my first degree by the time I turned 18, served a dozen years on active duty in the military, completed my undergraduate degree, and now work as a freelance writer as I also attend graduate school.
It can be done. Don't wait for the "right" time. Don't rely on "magic pills." Don't wait for the motivation to "kick in." Just. Fucking. Do. It.
If you want to learn about a variety of topics, spanning from what to look for when renting an apartment or house, to the inner workings of the field of psychology and mental health, this blog is for you!
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Wednesday, October 30, 2013
Relationships
While on the surface relationships look the same
The only thing different being the name
Differences exist and are often quite great
There is no such thing as fate
Being separated from others in the past provided a relief
But this one is different, that is my belief
Being away from my dear
Has made things quite clear
We are not who we were years ago
And I am looking forward to having ring seats at the show
Friday, October 25, 2013
Missing Limbs Thrown at Classmates
So, here I am, sitting in a hotel room in Florida. I feel like I have left a limb in Texas and dread the idea of sleeping alone. Not even a dog for company. I am on the brink of tears, missing someone who I didn't even knew existed six months ago, yet here I feel lost without that familiar lump in the bed or arms surrounding me in the now familiar hug. The smell, the touch, the person. Who would have thought?
Tomorrow marks the beginning of my hell week, also known as residency. I checked in earlier today, setting my eyes upon my classmates for the first time...the same ones whom I have made jerk off motions to while reading their discussion posts online. So, that being said, this week should be interesting.
I have been reminded that I am not allowed to inflict bodily harm OR mental anguish upon my classmates. I foresee sitting on my hands and biting my tongue...better than the other way around I suppose, as my hands are already prone to bleeding. I suppose the fact that I am not staying in the same hotel as my classmates is helpful, as the school arranged a "reduced" rate at the 4-star hotel, which, for the whole week would cost over $1000...absolutely asinine. Instead, I found a hotel about 15 minutes away that has a kitchen in the room, which will allow me to eat healthier and save money. After all, I am a frugal graduate student.
There may be some updates and a lot of tweets, as my usual support system is not here with me :(
Tomorrow marks the beginning of my hell week, also known as residency. I checked in earlier today, setting my eyes upon my classmates for the first time...the same ones whom I have made jerk off motions to while reading their discussion posts online. So, that being said, this week should be interesting.
I have been reminded that I am not allowed to inflict bodily harm OR mental anguish upon my classmates. I foresee sitting on my hands and biting my tongue...better than the other way around I suppose, as my hands are already prone to bleeding. I suppose the fact that I am not staying in the same hotel as my classmates is helpful, as the school arranged a "reduced" rate at the 4-star hotel, which, for the whole week would cost over $1000...absolutely asinine. Instead, I found a hotel about 15 minutes away that has a kitchen in the room, which will allow me to eat healthier and save money. After all, I am a frugal graduate student.
There may be some updates and a lot of tweets, as my usual support system is not here with me :(
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Thursday, October 10, 2013
Choo Choo! Time to Get Back on Track!
My journey to health has not been a smooth one, as I too am faced with temptations regularly. However, with recent life changes, these temptations are closer than ever. In the past, I simply kept "bad" food out of the house...no bread, soda, chips, crackers, etc. As such, if it wasn't in the house, I wouldn't be tempted to eat any of it. But here it is, in the house, tempting me. Do I like these things? Oh, yes, indeed I do. However, what I don't like is how they make me feel, the emptiness and guilt associated with them, and the fact that they are not a good source of fuel for my body. Yes, I do think about food as fuel. It is there to allow my body to do the things I want it to do.
With the changes that have happened in my life over the past month, my routine has been thwarted, and as such, my body and mind have suffered. I am a creature of habit, and I thrive on knowing what I am doing for the day, what is expected of me, and all that I need to complete. This includes diet and exercise, as well as my work as a writer. It is time to detox the house and start my routine again. So, in addition to three walks a day with the dogs, I will get back to my workouts, as they are part of what keeps me sane (or relatively so).
Here I come chicken, tuna, sweet potatoes, and broccoli. How I have missed you so!
With the changes that have happened in my life over the past month, my routine has been thwarted, and as such, my body and mind have suffered. I am a creature of habit, and I thrive on knowing what I am doing for the day, what is expected of me, and all that I need to complete. This includes diet and exercise, as well as my work as a writer. It is time to detox the house and start my routine again. So, in addition to three walks a day with the dogs, I will get back to my workouts, as they are part of what keeps me sane (or relatively so).
Here I come chicken, tuna, sweet potatoes, and broccoli. How I have missed you so!
Monday, October 7, 2013
Steady in a Centrifuge
Yes, it has been a while since my last blog post, but life has a funny way of taking up time. Well, if it wasn't taking up time, I'd be dead. If by such a theory, then if life didn't take up time, am I writing this from beyond the living realm? Perhaps.
School is starting back up this week, and I find myself surrounded by nitwits...again. I often think I am a magnet for such individuals. I also have to attend a residency later this month, which will be a challenge. Not the topic, but rather the interaction I will be required to do with such twats. At least it will be more tolerable, as I have a reason to resist killing or flogging my classmates (or at least to be crafty enough to not get caught).
I made the trek successfully from Oregon to Texas, and am settling in nicely. I have never felt so supported, understood, and appreciated as I do here, which I feel fortunate (and sometimes not worthy). We have our happy, albeit dysfunctional, dog family, who aside from the occasional barking match, get along well.
Work is picking up again, as just this week alone I have five projects due. It's nice to get back into my routine, as that is how I thrive the most. Some are able to tap into their creativity anywhere and anytime, but that is not my style. In order to write, I need a clear desk, some good audio entertainment to please my ears and stimulate my brain (usually BBC Radio 4, music, or even a Greg Proops podcast...aka "Proopcast"). Some good coffee and a snack are good additions too. By "good coffee," I don't mean some overpriced, over-commercialized trendy brew, but rather a quality bean, freshly ground, and brewed at home in my French press. It is so much better than drip coffee, and not as pretentious as "Starfucks."
Sometimes I think I am just going to school to obtain a piece of paper that will give my writing more credence, as I am not really a "people person," and have zero tolerance for potential clients who either complain about piddly crap or are stuck in the victim role (and happy there). I may be too harsh of a counselor for some clients.
Okay, back to work. Oh, and for any freelance writers out there in the blogosphere, I can recommend the Samsung Chromebook. While I still need to keep my old laptop for a few things (Grammar checking, language translation, and printing), it works well for my needs. It works fast, doesn't make my hands sweat by the heat that accompanies most laptops, and I don't have to worry about losing my work.
School is starting back up this week, and I find myself surrounded by nitwits...again. I often think I am a magnet for such individuals. I also have to attend a residency later this month, which will be a challenge. Not the topic, but rather the interaction I will be required to do with such twats. At least it will be more tolerable, as I have a reason to resist killing or flogging my classmates (or at least to be crafty enough to not get caught).
I made the trek successfully from Oregon to Texas, and am settling in nicely. I have never felt so supported, understood, and appreciated as I do here, which I feel fortunate (and sometimes not worthy). We have our happy, albeit dysfunctional, dog family, who aside from the occasional barking match, get along well.
Work is picking up again, as just this week alone I have five projects due. It's nice to get back into my routine, as that is how I thrive the most. Some are able to tap into their creativity anywhere and anytime, but that is not my style. In order to write, I need a clear desk, some good audio entertainment to please my ears and stimulate my brain (usually BBC Radio 4, music, or even a Greg Proops podcast...aka "Proopcast"). Some good coffee and a snack are good additions too. By "good coffee," I don't mean some overpriced, over-commercialized trendy brew, but rather a quality bean, freshly ground, and brewed at home in my French press. It is so much better than drip coffee, and not as pretentious as "Starfucks."
Sometimes I think I am just going to school to obtain a piece of paper that will give my writing more credence, as I am not really a "people person," and have zero tolerance for potential clients who either complain about piddly crap or are stuck in the victim role (and happy there). I may be too harsh of a counselor for some clients.
Okay, back to work. Oh, and for any freelance writers out there in the blogosphere, I can recommend the Samsung Chromebook. While I still need to keep my old laptop for a few things (Grammar checking, language translation, and printing), it works well for my needs. It works fast, doesn't make my hands sweat by the heat that accompanies most laptops, and I don't have to worry about losing my work.
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Thursday, September 12, 2013
Counseling Clients with Eating Disorders: Finding the Right Assessment
Here is the case study scenario used for the purpose of the following assessment evaluation:
The Case of Alicia
Alicia is 25-year-old female referred by her
partner, Sadie. Sadie is concerned that Alicia’s eating pattern is unhealthy. Alicia
insists that there is nothing wrong and is coming to counseling to humor Sadie.
When asked about her weight, Alicia notes that she could still stand to lose a
few pounds. She acknowledges that she likes to have a treat now and then, and
puts on a little weight, but she can cut back on her eating to compensate. She
reports her height as 5 feet, 5 inches and her weight as 120 pounds. Based upon
the way her clothing hangs loosely off her frame, her report of her weight is
likely an overestimate. Sadie is concerned that Alicia is becoming more moody. Alicia
acknowledges that she isn’t very happy with herself.
Abstract
Counselors have a variety of assessment tools at their disposal when
working with clients. However, if mental health professionals fail to consider
the unique factors of each of their clients, such as age, gender, or cultural
background, the results could be null in the way they are applied to the
client. The following paper will address the case of Alicia, who, while
appearing underweight, still desires to lose a few pounds. There are a variety
of issues a counselor needs to address when deciding which assessment tool
would be most useful when assessing Alicia’s case, including both her physical,
as well as psychological needs.
Counseling Clients with Eating Disorders: Finding the
Right Assessment
Mental health
professionals are often called upon to work with a variety of clients, with
issues ranging from marital discord and adjustment disorders, to dealing with
grief from losing a loved one and battling eating disorders. Each presenting
concern is often more than just the surface issue, as there can be underlying
contributing causes that has led the client to seeking assistance from a
counselor.
One of the roles of a
counselor involves choosing the most appropriate assessment tool, which can,
when used correctly, provide a wealth of information about the client, an
insight into how the clients think and how they perceive the current situation.
Assessments consist of tools which allow counselors to collect information in
order to identify, analyze, evaluate, and address any problems or issues that a
client may be experiencing when seeking assistance from a mental health
provider. Assessments can also serve as a useful asset to evaluate the current
methods of coping the client is currently using, and help to illustrate how
more effective and appropriate coping methods can contribute to a more
successful and positive outcome. Working in conjunction with sufficient
education on the part of the counselor or mental health care professional, such
assessments can assist in appraising the situation, issues, and needs of the
client.
When working with
clients, it is important to take certain aspects into consideration, such as
age, presenting concern, underlying issues, willingness to participate in
treatment, and a multicultural sensitivity on the part of the counselor, in
addition to selecting the correct and most appropriate assessment tool to
incorporate into the initial evaluation of the concern, as well as the
development of the therapeutic treatment plan. The aforementioned
considerations will be addressed in respect to the case of Alicia in the
following sections.
The
Case of Alicia
Alicia, who is in her
mid-twenties, appears in counseling due to a recommendation and prodding by her
partner, Sadie, who was concerned about Alicia’s preoccupation with her weight
and eating patterns. Alicia presents willing to entertain the idea of
counseling, if anything, to satisfy her partner’s concerns.
Initial Intake Assessment
Alicia appears to overestimate her current weight, as
she states her weight is 120 pounds, which according to the body mass index
(BMI) would fall within the “normal weight” range, which ranges from a BMI of
18.5 to 24.9 (http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/guidelines/obesity/BMI/bmicalc.htm).
Alicia’s given measurements places her BMI at 20.0, however, based on her
physical appearance, her weight is more likely to place her in the underweight
category. While there are some limitations of the BMI assessment, such as a
risk of overestimating the percentage of body fat in athletes and others with
considerable muscle mass (http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/obesity/lose_wt/risk.htm#limitations),
the BMI allows for a cursory assessment of a possible medical concern tied to
Alicia’s current weight.
Possible Issues Present
There appears to be a
few concerns present with Alicia, as her weight could be a symptom of another,
more psychologically based disorder. By focusing on the physical appearance,
counselors could risk developing “tunnel vision,” thus possibly missing other
contributing factors, such as anxiety, depression, or other underlying issues.
Alicia is in her early adulthood years, in which many mental health disorders
develop, possibly due to the developmental changes which occur during these
years. According to research into the field of eating disorders, most patients consists
of women between 12 and 25 years of age (Fankhauser & Lee, 2009), which
places Alicia at the end range. However, it is important to remember that
Alicia may have been experiencing disordered eating patterns for some time
before coming in for counseling, and as such, should not be discounted as a
possible concern. It would be important to determine if Alicia is experiencing
either an eating disorder, such as anorexia or bulimia, or instead suffering
from a more diverse diagnosis of body dysmorphic disorder, or BDD.
Possible
Assessments
In order to effectively
evaluate clients, it is imperative that counselors are aware of the various
assessments available for them to use when working with clients. Determining
the presence of a disorder can be a challenge, particularly if the client is
not keen on attending counseling in the first place. The awareness of and
effective implementation of certain assessments are two different aspects with
which counselors need to be well versed, as the assessment is only as valuable
as the accurate selection, correct administration, and skilled evaluation of
the results of a knowledgeable counselor or mental health worker.
Screening for Body Dysmorphic Disorder
While eating disorders
and body dysmorphic disorder can occur concurrently, one does not necessarily
guarantee the other. The Screening Instrument for Body Dysmorphic Disorder
(SI-BDDr) is a screening assessment tool which consists of six screening
questions which correspond to the diagnostic criteria found in the diagnostic
and statistical manual of mental disorders (DSM-IV-TR). The SI-BDDr assesses a
variety of criteria, including: (1) a preoccupation with a perceived or
imagined flaw in appearance, and (2) the preoccupation causes clinically
significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other areas of
functioning (Dingemans, van Rood, de Groot, & van Furth, 2012). Each of the
items are scored on the basis of a yes/no answer, which includes questions such
as, “are you preoccupied with the idea that your body or a part of your body is
unattractive, ugly, deformed or not beautiful enough?” Among the participants
in a 2012 study, nearly all (96%) of the participants who had an eating
disorder answered that particular question with a “yes,” regardless of the type
of eating disorder present (Dingemans, van Rood, de Groot, & van Furth,
2012). The use of the SI-BDDr as a screening instrument for body dysmorphia
disorder has been shown to have excellent sensitivity and specificity when used
in a general mental health population (Dingemans, van Rood, de Groot, & van
Furth, 2012).
When working with
clients who may have distorted body images or disordered eating habits, there
are often other psychological concerns present. Some of the associated
disorders, such as obsessive compulsive tendencies, social anxiety, depression,
and comorbid eating disorders can often occur with or be mistaken for body
dysmorphic symptoms (Mancuso, Knoesen, & Castle, 2010), thus making it
imperative that effective screening is performed by a qualified counselor or
mental health care professional. The appropriateness of utilizing the SI-BDDr
with Alicia would depend on the answers she provided during the assessment.
While her low weight and possible preoccupation with food may indicate body
dysmorphia, it would be wise to also examine the possible presence of an eating
disorder, as BDD and eating disorders are two different diagnoses, with
different methods of action.
Eating Disorder Inventory-2
While there is not much
known about Alicia’s history as it pertains to her weight concerns, screening
for an eating disorder would be beneficial. Using the Eating Disorder
Inventory-2 (EDI-2) with Alicia may allow useful information to be gained,
which could help to shape therapeutic treatment plans. The EDI-2 consists of 91
items, which consists of three subscales that address the behaviors concerning
eating, weight, and shape, as well as psychological subscales which consists of
items which are relevant to eating disorders, such as ineffectiveness,
perfection, interpersonal distrust, interoceptive awareness, and social
insecurity (Schinke, 1994) and can be completed via self-report in about 20
minutes. The EDI-2 has been shown to be effective in both male and female
clients over the age of 12 years.
The EDI-2 has been
shown to be effective when assessing for the presence of a variety of eating
disorders, including anorexia nervosa (both restricting and
binge-eating/purging types), bulimia nervosa, and eating disorder not otherwise
specified (NOS). Previous research into the validity of the EDI-2 has revealed
that it is an appropriate assessment tool when measuring the presence of eating
disorders, however the results appear to be more reliable when using the
assessment with female clients, as compared to male clients experiencing eating
disorders (Spillane, Boerner, Anderson, & Smith, 2004). Since Alicia is a
female over 12 years of age, the EDI-2 would be an appropriate tool to utilize
when assessing for the presence of a possible eating disorder.
Depending on the
answers provided by Alicia on the assessments mentioned above (the EDI-2 and
SI-BDDr), further screening may be required, such as incorporating the Beck
Depression Inventory, which could help to address any of the underlying psychological
issues that could be contributing or existing concurrently with the disordered
eating habits exhibited by Alicia, as previous research has suggested that
there is a strong association between the two variables of depression and
eating disorders (Troop, Serpell, & Treasure, 2001).
Ethical Use of Assessments
As a professional
within the mental health care field, counselors have an ethical requirement to
abide by a certain set of rules and regulations, which help to protect both the
client and the counselor when conducting a variety of assessments within the
professional domain. Among the core ethical obligations for counselors to
uphold are professional competency, integrity, honesty, confidentiality,
objectivity, public safety, and fairness (Schmeiser, 1995).
Most of the branches of
counseling have a code of ethics, by which members pledge to abide by and
uphold throughout their professional career. According to the American Mental
Health Counselors Association (AMHCA), Principle 4 addresses the utilization of
assessment techniques, including test selection, administration,
interpretation, and test reporting (AMHCA, 2000). Within the test selection
category, counselors who select the use of a combination of tests, such as
proposed for Alicia, counselors must be able to justify the reasoning behind
their choices (AMHCA, 2000, 4.A.2.), which has been sufficiently addressed in
using the possible combination set forth in the current treatment assessment
plan.
Additionally, the American Counseling Association
(ACA) addresses the importance of the ethical use of assessments in the
professional realm, as Section E of the ACA Code of Ethics (2005) contains
information which pertains to the evaluation, assessment, and interpretation of
the results gathered through the use of assessments in a counseling setting.
According to the ACA, assessment instruments are just one of the components of
the counseling process, and that counselors need to be careful when considering
which instrument is used, consulting the validity, reliability, and
appropriateness for the particular client for which it is intended.
When taking into
account the ethical codes set forth by both the AMHCA and the ACA, the
assessments addressed in the current paper, specifically the Screening Instrument
for Body Dysmorphic Disorder and the Eating Disorder Inventory-2 when used to
assess the presence of either body dysmorphia or eating disorders, or while not
addressed in entirety, the possible administration of the Beck Depression
Inventory, all appear to be appropriate and without ethical contradiction when
used correctly with Alicia.
Cultural Considerations
Just as the AMHCA and
the ACA have regulations set forth in their individual codes of ethics
regarding the administration and use of assessment tools, they too have
regulations that address the importance of not only the counselor being
well-versed in a variety of multicultural topics as they pertain to the
counseling setting and therapeutic interventions, counselors are also reminded
to be cautious when selecting assessments, paying regard to any shortcomings or
assessments which may lack appropriate psychometric properties for the
population or demographic of the client (ACA, 2005, E.6.c.). As per the AMHCA
ethical guidelines pertaining to the client specific cultural considerations,
counselors are reminded to select tests and assessments that are appropriate to
the client, with norms, when applicable to the specific assessment, that fit
the client’s demographics, such as age, gender, and race (AMHCA, 2000, 4.A.5.).
Likewise, during the test interpretation phase, counselors are prompted to take
into consideration possible multicultural factors in not only the test
interpretation phase, but also the diagnosis, prognosis, and therapeutic
treatment plan design (AMHCA, 2000, 4.C.5.).
When assessing the
cultural aspects of the tools suggested for administration with Alicia, there
does not appear to be any possible contradictions, as while the Eating Disorder
Inventory-2 has shown to be not as reliable when used with male participants (Spillane,
Boerner, Anderson, & Smith, 2004), Alicia is a female, which would not pose
a problem with the administration of the EDI-2.
Conclusion
While clients may
present with more obvious concerns, such as a below-healthy body weight, as
with Alicia, there may be other contributing causes which can be assessed
through an effective counseling relationship, incorporating the use of
appropriate assessment tools. If a counselor were to treat merely Alicia’s
weigh concerns, ignoring the other aspects, such as her acknowledgement that
she isn’t very happy with herself, the counseling may not be as effective as if
the therapeutic plan approached Alicia’s treatment in a more holistic fashion,
allowing for the existence of possible other contributing factors, such as
anxiety and/or depression. Through pursuing the eating disorder and possible
body dysmorphia issues, a counselor working with Alicia may be able to make
headway in the other realms of Alicia’s life.
The administering of
assessment tools with clients requires counselors be cognizant of both the
ethical and multicultural considerations which may apply and could possibly
create a contraindication with certain assessment tools. However, while some
tools may be designated as inappropriate for certain groups or demographics of
clients, there are usually a number of other assessment tools at a counselor’s
disposal when working with clients, which may be better tailored to work with
certain multicultural concerns.
**References Available Upon Request**
Sunday, September 8, 2013
Just Me and My Anxiety
Tossing and turning, fitful even in my sleep.Unable to quell the worries and thoughts that consume.
It’s too hot.
It’s too cold.
My skin feels too constricting.
Need to run away from myself.
She’s going to hit me.
He has a small dick.
How can people be so unaware of their impact on the lives of another?
Get the fuck out of my way.
Annoying cunts.
Nothing is orderly.
A place for everything and everything in its place...but me.
Feelings of annoyance and wanting to break free from the chains of anxiety.
Unable to communicate to others the way it feels.
It’s nothing personal, just my personality (and brain chemistry).
Need to slow the thoughts through medicinal options.
And the sweet release of the straight jacket comes with the burning tears.
Pleasure and pain, the yin to the yang.
Up, up, up, higher and higher, then plummeting down...drained and spent.
Nothing is wrong, yet the feelings consume.
The understanding and patience of a gentle soul.
Thursday, September 5, 2013
The Importance of Self-Monitoring and A Personal Example
Self-monitoring
The act of utilizing the hypothetical filter that exists between the mind and the brain can be an invaluable tool for counselors when working with clients, particularly during high stress situations. Counselors need to refrain from saying or acting in a way that could hamper client success. Just as counselors ask their clients to monitor their behavior and thoughts as part of possible homework project, counselors too need to remain cognizant of their behavior.
Personal Experience
Having had the benefit of working in a few different group homes, with clients ranging from those experiencing developmental delays including fetal alcohol syndrome, unmedicated paranoid schizophrenia, and even clients who were placed into a group home setting by the legal system due to them being adolescent sex offenders who, if it wasn’t for their diminished mental capacity, would be incarcerated. Each of these environments provided many opportunities in which I needed to self-monitor both my words and actions. One such example was when a client was upset that I had brought up to my boss that the client was “Facebook friends” with a few of the staff members, which is a violation of boundaries. The client and staff members were instructed to “de-friend” each other, which set the client off into a behavioral spiral, which included punching of walls, throwing of furniture, and eventually cornering me into a room and attempting to physically assault me.
Due to the legal aspect, staff members are provided with instruction and lessons on personal protection intervention (PPI), in which we are taught how to detain clients as well as protect ourselves from receiving physical harm. When the client cornered me and locked me in a room with him, as he blocked the door, I had to use self-monitoring, both on the verbal and physical levels. I had to remain calm in demeanor, working to use my words and tone to convey the message that this was not approved behavior. Additionally, in my off time I enjoy kickboxing and sparring with a 100 pound heavy bag as well as MMA training, so I had to resist doing what I use in those instances. Yes, part of me wanted to use these moves, but I had to listen to, and be the voice of reason.
By remaining calm in the above situation, I was able to diffuse the conflict without coming to blows with the client. Additionally, I was able to work with the client after that...until he told his counselor that he wanted to kill me a few weeks later, complete with a plan, including method and time. Thankfully the counselor, who I had met and worked with in the past, utilized the appropriate Duty to Warn counseling ethics and notified me of the situation, or potential situation. However, my boss kept me working one-on-one with the client despite a continual escalation in the behavior and the threat, which eventually led to my leaving the company due to providing an unsafe work environment.
Friday, August 30, 2013
Where's Your God?
Where's your God?
Where's your God when people are shooting?
Where's your God when kids are burning?
Where's your God when children are starving?
Where's your God when fathers are raping?
Where's your God when bullies are taunting?
Where's your God when animals are suffering?
Where's your God when bomb are dropping?
Where's your God when women are fleeing?
Where's your God when youths are killing?
Where's your God?
Tuesday, August 27, 2013
Religion, Spirituality, and Counseling: Can they Coexist?
While I may not post my weekly course discussions here, some I find could be of benefit to others. This is one such instance. Religion and sexuality are two "hot button" issues for me, and when they come up in my coursework, I don't hold back. I attempt to educate, tactfully of course, my classmates on how they are narrow minded and really need to open their eyes to the world around them. Sadly, when I do such things, very few interact with or engage in conversations. I feel bad for their future clients, as so many have stated that "I would have a problem working with a client who does not believe in Christ," and "I would not want to work with gay clients because my religion considers it to be wrong." Seriously? According to the Code of Ethics, counselors are reminded not to discriminate based on age, gender, religion, or sexual preference. I guess that means more clients for me in the future. Oh, and don't get me started on the fact that many of my classmates have stated that they "believe in miracles." Fuck. I should apologize for my views, as they may alienate some, but the views of many alienate me.
Differing Spiritual Views
With
an estimated 85-90% of people within the United States identifying as religious
(Zuckerman, 2009), it is important for counselors to possess the ability to
understand the views of another person. While many within the counseling field
are aware that there are a variety of religions and have stated that they will
be willing and able to work with clients of differing religious faiths, very
few have mentioned the inclusion of atheism and non-spirituality as it pertains
to the multicultural issues of counseling. Just as the ability to provide
counseling as a Christian to a Muslim believer, it too is important that
counselors are willing to provide counseling to an atheist as well. However,
such oversight is not solely on the shoulders of the counselors, as very little
literature has focused on addressing how a counselor can approach a client who
identifies as non-religious (D’Andrea & Sprenger, 2007).
Working with Clients Who Are “Different”
Being
within the minority on the realm of religion, I have had many opportunities to
work with clients who have had different belief systems from myself. Through my
varied education in a variety of religions, I am able to speak with clients on
a number of topics, some of which revolve around religion. Being aware of my personal
beliefs, including the fact that not everyone will share them, allows me to be
comfortable in a state of cognitive dissonance, as I can separate my personal
beliefs from those of my clients, neither being right or wrong, just different.
Through
developing an understanding of a variety of religions, it can assist counselors
in understanding the way their clients view their lives, complete with the
influence religion has in their lives, as well as the way it helps to shape
their beliefs, goals, and values. If the topic of religion comes up during a
counseling session, providing assistance does not depend on who happens to have
the best belief system, but rather how the client’s personal views on religion
can influence their lives, for better or worse. It is the job of the counselor
to help the client to be successful as they define it, not how the counselor
defines success.
If
religion does come up during a session and a client asks about my personal
beliefs, I am aware that many individuals have negative views of atheists, many associating atheism as being morally corrupt, with an estimated 54% of
Americans having an unfavorable view of atheists and even giving them a lower
priority on a kidney waiting list when compared to Christian patients
(Zuckerman, 2009). If I was directly asked, I would not hide my personal views
from the client, knowing that they may choose to be referred to a different
counselor whose views align more with the views of the clients.
References
D'Andrea,
L. M., & Sprenger, J. (2007). Atheism and nonspirituality as diversity
issues in counseling. Counseling and
Values, 51(2), 149-158.
Zuckerman,
P. (2009). Atheism, secularity, and well-being: How the findings of social
science counter negative stereotypes and assumptions. Sociology Compass 3(6), 949-971.
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